Meet The Cast Series: Genesis 23 — Will Abraham Persist for the Promise?
- Melinda Martin
- Aug 16
- 6 min read
Updated: Aug 17
Sometimes faith looks like a glorious leap. Other times, it looks a lot less glamorous... sometimes it even looks like paperwork! In Genesis 23, Abraham faces a faith-defining moment. This moment doesn't happen on a mountain top, but in a legal negotiation at the city gate. His wife Sarah has died, and they are still sojourners without a permanent home. The land God promised them doesn't belong to them, so the question that remains is, does the promise still stand?
What happens next is more than a property purchase—it’s a demonstration in persistence, faith, and honouring God and our family when hope is lost and grief hits hard.
THE STORY - SCENE BY SCENE
Read Genesis 23: 3-20 in your bible alongside this scene-by-scene breakdown.
Grief Moves into Action: Abraham rises from mourning Sarah’s death and turns toward the future. Standing before the Hittite elders at the city gate, he identifies himself humbly—as “a sojourner and foreigner among you.” But he’s not just expressing grief; he’s initiating something sacred. He asks to purchase a burial site—not just to honour Sarah, but to anchor his family in the land God promised. (vv3-4)
A Flattering Deflection: The Hittite leaders respond with cultural generosity. “You are a mighty prince among us,” they say. They offer Abraham the “best of our tombs”—free of charge, it seems... but there’s a catch. Their kindness stops short of giving away land. Burial space, sure—but ownership? That’s something else entirely. (vv5-6)
A Specific Request: Abraham bows respectfully but presses forward. He’s not after any tomb—he wants the cave of Machpelah, owned by Ephron son of Zohar. He’s willing to pay the full price. He asks the elders to act as mediators in the negotiation. Abraham isn’t seeking a favour. He wants legal rights. This is more than a tomb—this is a stake in the promise. (vv7-9)
A Public Offer, With Strings: Ephron is already among them and speaks up. In front of everyone, he makes an offer that sounds generous: he’ll “give” Abraham not just the cave, but the field it’s in. But here’s the nuance—gifting land could mean Abraham wouldn’t have permanent or legal rights. It’s an honourable trap. Culturally appropriate, but legally flimsy. (vv10-11)
A Price is Named: Abraham bows again and clarifies: he wants to pay. No favours. No blurred lines. Ephron, perhaps expecting this, names a price—400 shekels of silver. “What is that between you and me?” he says, feigning casualness. In reality, it’s an exorbitant amount. Yet Abraham doesn’t haggle. (vv12-15)
The Full Price Paid: Without hesitation, Abraham weighs out the silver—400 shekels, according to the merchant’s standard. This wasn’t a backroom deal. It was public, witnessed, and fully legal. Abraham’s faith has a receipt. (v16)
The Land is Secured: The sale is finalised. The text names the field, the cave, the trees, and affirms the presence of witnesses. Abraham now owns land in Canaan. For the first time, a piece of the promised land is in Israelite hands—not through conquest or inheritance, but through honourable purchase. (vv17-18)
A Burial with Eternal Implications: Abraham buries Sarah in the cave of Machpelah. A woman of laughter, legacy, and promise, she becomes the first to be laid to rest in the land God swore to give them. Her tomb becomes a generational anchor—for Isaac, Jacob, and the generations to come. (vv19-20)
"MEET THE CAST" MAIN CHARACTERS
Abraham - The Father of Nations

Before he was a landowner or the father of nations, Abraham was just a man who said yes to a strange and stunning invitation. Back in Genesis 12:1–3, God told him to leave everything familiar—his country, his people, his father’s household—and go “to the land I will show you.” In return, God promised to make him into a great nation, to bless him, and to make his name great. So Abraham went.
Over the next chapters, we watch him wrestle with faith and fear, not to mention the unfolding family drama. He journeys through famine (Gen 12:10–20), navigates conflict and rescue missions (Gen 13–14), and receives wild promises of offspring while still childless (Gen 15). He laughs with Sarah at the idea of becoming parents in old age (Gen 17:17; 18:12), but God follows through and Isaac is born (Gen 21:1–7). He’s tested on the mountaintop with Isaac (Gen 22) and passes with unwavering obedience.
Now at Genesis 23, Sarah has died, and Abraham still owns none of the land God promised him. Nothing. He is effectively a renter with no security or claim to property.
Abraham has to make a choice... will he contend for the call of God on his life? Will he persist for the promise?
Sarah - The Mother of Nations

Sarah’s story runs parallel to Abraham’s, but with its own depth and drama. First introduced as Sarai in Genesis 11:29–30, we’re immediately told she’s barren—a painful identity in the ancient world. Yet God promises that she, too, will be part of the great nation He’s forming (Genesis 17:15–16).
She laughs—at the impossibility of it all (Gen 18:12)—but names her son Isaac, meaning “he laughs,” when the impossible becomes real (Gen 21:1–7). Her journey includes beauty, bravery, mistakes, and miracles.
Now in Genesis 23, her death marks not just the end of a life, but the beginning of Israel’s claim to the land.
Ephron the Hittite - The Unwitting Midwife of the Promise

Ephron isn’t a hero or a villain—he’s a landowner, a savvy negotiator, and a man of status in Hebron. Publicly generous, yet privately shrewd, Ephron initially offers the land “as a gift”—but with conditions. Amidst the negotiations, he unknowingly becomes instrumental in birthing a permanent foothold for God’s covenant people. With a mix of public generosity and private cunning, Ephron names a steep price for the cave of Machpelah, perhaps hoping Abraham will walk away.
Whether trying to save face or secure a premium, his exaggerated price of 400 shekels is eyebrow-raising. Still, he plays his part in God’s unfolding plan.
"MEET THE CAST" BACKGROUND CHARACTERS
The Hittite Elders

Gatekeepers of legal and social norms. Their role may seem minor, but their presence is crucial. They witness the transaction, legitimise Abraham’s purchase, and—perhaps unknowingly—sanction the first legal Israelite claim to the land of promise.
"MEET THE CAST" WHAT DO THE CHARACTERS TEACH US TODAY?
Abraham | Sarah | Ephron |
Abraham teaches us that faith isn’t passive—it acts. He doesn’t just believe God’s word about the land; he invests in it, even in a moment of deep grief. His decision to purchase land is bold, practical, and prophetic. It honours his wife according to their custom. His faith is not just about believing, but being faithful in action. | Though silent in this passage, Sarah’s presence is weighty. Her life was marked by waiting, laughter, and struggle—and in her death, she is honoured with permanence in the promised land. | Ephron appears generous, offering to “give” land. But cultural custom and hidden conditions show he wasn’t truly giving anything. His inflated price and public posturing reveal how easy it is to use polite language to serve self-interest. |
Just as this story spoke to biblical Israel, Abraham is an example for us today to keep showing up, keep planting, keep trusting—even when the ground feels shaky. His action highlights that legacy is built one faithful decision at a time. And even when the promise feels like it's over, we are likewise called to persist in faith. | Just as this story spoke to biblical Israel, Sarah reminds us that we are part of something bigger. Even when it feels like the end, God is still working out his plan and purpose. When we feel forgotten or that we have nothing to offer we can be assured that our lives matter, more than we know, in God’s unfolding plan. | Just as this story spoke to biblical Israel, Ephron reminds us that not all generosity is genuine. In fact, generosity without integrity is not generosity at all. We must be wise in our negotiations and discerning of manipulation disguised with flattering words. |
Go Deeper - Questions for Reflection:
Take some time to reflect and journal. Explore the story with curiousity, asking Holy Spirit to speak to you. Consider the following questions to help you get started:
1. Where in your life are you still waiting for a promise to be fulfilled? How might you, like Abraham, act in faith even when you can’t yet see the outcome?
2. Are there areas where you’ve been tempted to take shortcuts instead of doing things the right—but costly—way? What would it look like to “pay the full price” in trust and obedience?
3. Sarah’s story is marked by long waiting, doubt, and finally joy. How does her journey help you reframe your own seasons of silence, delay, or laughter after grief?
4. Ephron became part of God’s promise without even realising it. Do you recognise people in your life who are part of your story in unexpected ways? How might God be using others—willing or unwilling—to move your story forward?
5. Abraham purchased land for a future he wouldn’t fully see. What are you investing in today that might bear fruit for future generations? How can you be intentional about legacy?
6. Abraham chose to stay in the land God showed him, even while grieving. Are you being called to remain planted somewhere difficult—trusting that God’s purposes are still unfolding?

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